The Universal Algorithm

The algorithm on social media has people in a real chokehold! If you’re not careful, you can get trapped in a toxic loop of ragebait. You train the algorithm by the content you engage with. So if you consistently consume content that rattles your nerves, that is exactly what the algorithm is going to continually bring to your doorstep.

You open your app and before you know it, you've spent the entire evening arguing about something stupid with someone you don’t even know. The next day, you log back in and see more of that person’s content and more posts just like it.

Now you’re on the hamster wheel.

You’ll continue to see the content you keep responding to. From the algorithm’s perspective, this makes perfect sense. You’re engaging with this material, so clearly it assumes you want more of it.

When studying the Law of Attraction and the process of manifestation, it helps to define what’s happening as the Universe’s version of the social media algorithm.

Whatever you focus on, whatever you pay special attention to, whatever consistently captures your interest, that’s what you’ll keep receiving.

Your affirmations are a way of training your mind to pay attention to what you want. They help you deliberately direct your focus instead of allowing your attention to be hijacked by whatever is loudest, most dramatic, or most irritating.

So when you spend more time engaging with ragebait than with your actual goals, what do you think you’re reinforcing in your life?

It really is that simple. And it really is that difficult. Most people allow social media algorithms to shape their experience without ever intentionally curating what they consume. In many ways, this mirrors how people live their lives. They feel as though they are at the mercy of the Fates, as if life is simply happening to them.

But there are many ways to steer your experience if you’re willing to take conscious responsibility for where you place your attention.

When you view the Law of Attraction as The Universal Algorithm, it becomes much easier to understand why those of us who study Spiritual Law emphasize the importance of watching your words and monitoring your focus.

Imagine you decide that you absolutely cannot stand women with green hair. You come across a woman with green hair on social media and proceed to comment on every photo, explaining how much you dislike her hair.

(First of all, it is none of your business what color she chooses to dye her hair. Second, if you dislike it so much, why are you spending any time over there? Questions to ask yourself.)

But then, the next day, you open your account and your feed is overflowing with women with green hair.

Now you are irritated. What’s happening?

You spent six hours engaging with green-haired content, and the algorithm interpreted your behavior as interest.

The Universe operates similarly, it’s impersonal. The Universe isn’t analyzing your preferences or trying to decode what you claim you dislike. It responds to what you consistently focus on.

The Universe simply says:

“This person spends a lot of time thinking about and engaging with women with green hair. Say less! Here’s some more women with green hair! Enjoy! 🥰”

 

If you’re not getting what you want from life, just as if you’re not getting what you want from your social media feed, it may be time to reset your algorithm. Deliberately focus your attention on what evokes the feelings and experiences you want to expand. Spend less time reacting to what irritates you.

Move on!

Would you rather see women with purple hair? Great! Now go find the purple-haired girlies and like/comment on their content. Engage with what you genuinely enjoy. Do the same thing in real life.

This way you intentionally change your algorithm!

Watch Your Mouth!

 

You fall out of alignment with what you’re trying to manifest by doing or saying things that seem small and trivial to you, but are actually major red flags spiritually.

For example, if you’re wanting to attract love and romance, but you’re constantly sarcastic or salty about other people being in relationships, whether online or in person, you’re transmitting a very different signal than the one you think you are.

You can do all the affirmations in the world. You can sit in beautiful vibes, meditate, and send out loving intentions all day long, and still completely block yourself through your true inner feelings about love and relationships.

If you’re looking at a relationship that seems solid, loving, and healthy, and your first response is sarcasm or bitterness:

“Oh my God, get a room.”
“You guys are doing too much.”
“You make me sick.”

…you’re repelling what it is you say you want. You say you want a loving relationship, and when anything that resembles it gets in front of you, you smack it down.

Instead, you need to bless it. You need to be able to say:

“That’s beautiful. Thank God that energy exists in the world, and that I had the privilege of witnessing it, because it means that kind of love is available to me too.”

When you become critical of what other people have, you create a shield to cover your own longing for it. That shield mangles the signal. All of that positive energy, meditation work, affirmations, and spiritual practice gets distorted because underneath it all is resentment, envy, anger, or grief.

Then you sit there saying:

“This shit doesn’t work.”

But it’s not just about the words coming out of your mouth. It’s about the emotional state those words are coming from.

If you’re dealing with issues of self-worth, rejection, or deservingness around relationships, then underneath all those affirmations may still be a deep feeling of:

“Why not me?”
“What’s wrong with me?”
“I want that and I don’t have it.”

So when you see love expressed openly in front of you, it makes you uncomfortable. Instead of admitting the longing, you lash out through sarcasm, passive-aggressive comments, criticism, or jokes.

“OMG, you guys are always all over each other.”
“No one wants to see all of that.”

But the truth is, you do want it. You want it deeply.

And those bitter, resentful emotional states are repellent to the very thing you’re trying to attract.

Now understand what I’m saying carefully: your feelings are your feelings. I’m not condemning you for having them. That emotional state is exactly why you’re doing the affirmations, meditations, visualizations, and spiritual work in the first place. The goal is to work through those toxic emotional states, not pretend they aren’t there.

So every time you feel yourself getting ready to leave a snarky comment under someone’s wedding photo, engagement announcement, anniversary post, couples vacation picture, or relationship update, stop yourself.

When you notice yourself starting to feel some kind of way, interrupt the pattern immediately.

Drop in an affirmation.

Personally, I prescribe ten affirmation reps for every violation. Minimum. 😌

Use your affirmations liberally in those moments. Use them as long as the feeling persists. The more you start shooing away those negative thoughts and reactions toward other people’s relationships, the more space you create within your own energetic field to receive the loving relationship you desire.

Your manifestations are always preceded by witnessing similar energies and situations around you first. That’s part of the process. You see it. You acknowledge it. Then you come into spiritual agreement with it.

When you can look at love and honestly say:

“Yes. I like that. That feels good to me. I desire that for myself.”

…you move closer to experiencing it in your own life.

But every time you move into criticism, judgment, sarcasm, mockery, envy, or spite, you push that energy away from yourself.

You just shooed away your blessing.

So yeah, watch your mouth! 🫢

Your Divine Portion

 

Your Divine Portion

The Manna from Heaven – Exodus 16
The Parable of the Talents – Matthew 25:14–30

For all who believe, there is a Divine Portion set aside for you—one that you do not have to struggle for. It is accessed through Right Action and Divine Direction.

If you have obtained much through struggle and still feel dissatisfied, it may be a sign that you are not operating in alignment with your Divine Portion. Scripture tells us, “The blessing of the LORD makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it” (Proverbs 10:22). If what you have carries sorrow, strain, or unrest, you may be moving according to what you have seen others do, or striving for what belongs to someone else.

What God has for you is for you. What God has for others is for them. Envy, pride, and jealousy cloud your vision, making it difficult to recognize and receive what is yours. Your portion will not look like anyone else’s. It has been uniquely designed to bring both provision and peace—a sense of satisfaction and a settled spirit. When you pursue what is not yours, dissatisfaction follows.

Access to your portion is often found through your natural gifts and talents. While your path will require effort, focus, and consistency, it should not be marked by unnecessary struggle or suffering. When you follow Divine Direction and take inspired action, what you need will be provided. If additional education, certifications, or experiences are required, a way will be made for you to obtain them without strain. Honest effort, aligned with Divine guidance, opens the necessary doors.

There are also ways to lose access to your portion. Chasing someone else’s path, engaging in dishonesty, or attempting to manipulate outcomes while claiming Divine guidance undermines your alignment. Speaking negatively about others and their circumstances can do the same. Many people close doors through their behavior—how they treat others matters deeply.

Prejudice, bigotry, and a judgmental spirit can shut doors quickly. Scripture reminds us, “Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares” (Hebrews 13:2). The very gatekeepers to your next opportunity may come in forms you did not expect—different in race, belief, or background. Maintaining respect, integrity, and proper conduct is essential, regardless of personal bias.

Stay focused. Keep your eyes on your own paper. Listen for the “still, small voice” within (1 Kings 19:11–12), and follow its direction.

When progress seems to slow, remain steady. Do not waver or abandon what you have been led to do. Continue. Some make the mistake of trying to force momentum by “faking it,” scattering their energy in the process. True “acting as if” is an internal posture—a quiet confidence that what you seek is already unfolding. Performing for others, however, is simply deception.

There is also a misunderstanding that faith requires silence in the face of difficulty. It does not. We are not commanded to ignore hardship. God makes room for honest expression. As human beings, we experience anger, frustration, and sorrow. There is space to lament.

The key is sincerity. Speak truthfully, not recklessly. Careless or uninformed words can disrupt your path just as much as misaligned actions. Scripture offers examples of this balance in both the Book of Lamentations and the Book of Job.

Your Divine Portion is not something you chase—it is something you align with. It is revealed through your obedience, your integrity, and your willingness to move in step with Divine guidance rather than human comparison. When you honor your path, guard your conduct, and remain steady in both action and spirit, what is meant for you will meet you without strain. Your role is not to force the outcome, but to stay in position—clear, consistent, and aligned—so that what has already been prepared for you can arrive fully and without sorrow.

Provide and Protect

 

Provision and Protection

In the tarot, the Empress and the Emperor appear early in the Major Arcana as the archetypal parents of the Fool, the human consciousness entering the world to learn how reality works. Traditionally, the Emperor represents the father or father figure, authority, law, government, military command, and institutional power. He stands in for heads of state, corporate leadership, the legal system, and the mechanisms that establish order, boundaries, and defense. In readings, he often functions as a symbol of structure itself: rules, oversight, logistics, and the enforcement of stability.

The Empress, his counterpart, is traditionally associated with the mother or mother figure, yet her scope extends far beyond nurturing in the sentimental sense. She represents production, business, commerce, material growth, health, and well-being. She is the card of fulfillment. In the Empress’s world, there is no needful thing. At minimum, needs are met. At best, there is abundance, pleasure, beauty, and a felt sense of being supported by life itself. She governs the body, lived experience, and the systems that allow people to thrive rather than merely survive. When paired with other cards, she may indicate pregnancy, but more broadly she reflects the conditions that sustain society from the inside out.

Together, the Emperor and the Empress sit side by side as complementary forces. Both are concerned with protection. Both are concerned with provision. The difference lies in how those qualities are expressed. The Emperor protects through structure. The Empress protects through fulfillment. One ensures survival. The other ensures that life feels worth living.

How Patriarchy Disrupted the Balance

Patriarchal systems elevated the Emperor’s form of intelligence while suppressing the Empress’s. Structure, authority, and productivity became synonymous with legitimacy. Relational intelligence, intuition, embodied knowing, and emotional insight were relegated to the private sphere and treated as secondary or ornamental.

This imbalance was promoted as beneficial to men. Protection and provision were framed as guarantees: if men aligned themselves with stability, status, and productivity, access to women would naturally follow. Women, in turn, were expected to offer sex, reproduction, and compliance without requiring recognition of their full humanity or intelligence.

That promise did not hold.

Rather than producing mutual fulfillment, it produced entitlement and disconnection. When reality failed to deliver the expected outcomes, many doubled down on the framework itself, insisting that women were the problem rather than questioning the premise. This dynamic appears loudly in red-pill spaces and quietly in many conventional relationships. Even well-intentioned men often continue to treat feminine expression as diminutive. Emotions, intuition, spirituality, and perception are acknowledged but not trusted. They are heard without being allowed to shape shared reality.

The Impact on Women and the Distortion of Feminine Power

The suppression of feminine intelligence also fractured women’s access to authentic models of feminine authority. With few examples of balanced feminine power in leadership, many women attempted to reclaim agency by adopting masculine frameworks and renaming them empowerment. This produced a version of feminism that mirrors patriarchy in posture, prioritizing dominance, hyper-independence, and material accumulation while leaving relational intelligence unaddressed.

Putting a skirt on patriarchy did not restore feminine authority. It merely shifted who was holding the same tools.

Feminine energy moves differently. It is relational, adaptive, responsive, and life-centered. When women are encouraged to express power only through masculine channels, frustration follows rather than liberation. As a result, many women opted out of traditional relationships altogether. Confinement felt too costly. Diminishing voice, intuition, and interior life proved unsustainable.

Some chose autonomy, prioritizing career and material stability. Others redefined fulfillment outside of partnership. Yet beneath these choices, the desire for connection remained. What disappeared was the willingness to endure erasure in exchange for proximity.

Women are not rejecting relationship. They are rejecting relationships that do not allow mutual evolution.

The Impact on Modern Relationships

As masculine structure is prioritized and feminine fulfillment is diminished, relationships become transactional. Desire weakens under entitlement. Communication falters when one form of intelligence is privileged over another. People remain materially supported yet emotionally isolated.

The masculine principle organizes, builds, defends, and enforces. Relationship, connection, and community arise through feminine energy. When that energy is dismissed, partnerships lose their connective tissue. Individuals begin managing relationships rather than inhabiting them.

Women experience this as partial recognition. Men experience it as confusion and loneliness. Both feel the strain of an arrangement that promised fulfillment but delivered distance.

The Return of the Empress

Energy does not disappear when suppressed. It reroutes.

What we are witnessing now—through experimentation in identity, expression, aesthetics, and relational structure—is the return of the Empress to collective consciousness. This re-emergence is not tidy. It arrives through excess, creativity, visibility, and boundary testing. It is a corrective process rather than a rebellion.

The Empress is restoring fulfillment, relational intelligence, and embodied wisdom to a culture that overvalued structure at the expense of lived experience. She is not seeking dominance. She is restoring function.

Toward Balance

The Emperor without the Empress produces efficient systems that people do not belong to.

The Empress without the Emperor produces nurturing communities that cannot scale or defend themselves.

Balance is operational, not symbolic.

Healthy relationships require shared authority over meaning. Protection and provision must move in both directions, expressed through different forms of intelligence, each treated as legitimate. When intuition is recognized as data and fulfillment as a necessity rather than a luxury, relationships regain coherence.

The task before us is not to discard the Emperor, but to restore the Empress to equal standing. Only then can protection truly provide, and provision truly protect.

Closing reflection: What we are being asked to reconsider is not gender, but governance. Not identity, but authority. The Emperor and the Empress do not compete for dominance. They govern different dimensions of human life, each incomplete without the other. A world built on structure alone becomes brittle. A world built on fulfillment alone cannot endure. The future of our relationships depends on restoring both forms of intelligence to equal standing, allowing protection and provision to move through us as shared responsibilities rather than inherited roles. When structure learns to listen and fulfillment is trusted as real, relationship becomes possible again—not as obligation, but as choice.