Watch Your Mouth!

 

You fall out of alignment with what you’re trying to manifest by doing or saying things that seem small and trivial to you, but are actually major red flags spiritually.

For example, if you’re wanting to attract love and romance, but you’re constantly sarcastic or salty about other people being in relationships, whether online or in person, you’re transmitting a very different signal than the one you think you are.

You can do all the affirmations in the world. You can sit in beautiful vibes, meditate, and send out loving intentions all day long, and still completely block yourself through your true inner feelings about love and relationships.

If you’re looking at a relationship that seems solid, loving, and healthy, and your first response is sarcasm or bitterness:

“Oh my God, get a room.”
“You guys are doing too much.”
“You make me sick.”

…you’re repelling what it is you say you want. You say you want a loving relationship, and when anything that resembles it gets in front of you, you smack it down.

Instead, you need to bless it. You need to be able to say:

“That’s beautiful. Thank God that energy exists in the world, and that I had the privilege of witnessing it, because it means that kind of love is available to me too.”

When you become critical of what other people have, you create a shield to cover your own longing for it. That shield mangles the signal. All of that positive energy, meditation work, affirmations, and spiritual practice gets distorted because underneath it all is resentment, envy, anger, or grief.

Then you sit there saying:

“This shit doesn’t work.”

But it’s not just about the words coming out of your mouth. It’s about the emotional state those words are coming from.

If you’re dealing with issues of self-worth, rejection, or deservingness around relationships, then underneath all those affirmations may still be a deep feeling of:

“Why not me?”
“What’s wrong with me?”
“I want that and I don’t have it.”

So when you see love expressed openly in front of you, it makes you uncomfortable. Instead of admitting the longing, you lash out through sarcasm, passive-aggressive comments, criticism, or jokes.

“OMG, you guys are always all over each other.”
“No one wants to see all of that.”

But the truth is, you do want it. You want it deeply.

And those bitter, resentful emotional states are repellent to the very thing you’re trying to attract.

Now understand what I’m saying carefully: your feelings are your feelings. I’m not condemning you for having them. That emotional state is exactly why you’re doing the affirmations, meditations, visualizations, and spiritual work in the first place. The goal is to work through those toxic emotional states, not pretend they aren’t there.

So every time you feel yourself getting ready to leave a snarky comment under someone’s wedding photo, engagement announcement, anniversary post, couples vacation picture, or relationship update, stop yourself.

When you notice yourself starting to feel some kind of way, interrupt the pattern immediately.

Drop in an affirmation.

Personally, I prescribe ten affirmation reps for every violation. Minimum. 😌

Use your affirmations liberally in those moments. Use them as long as the feeling persists. The more you start shooing away those negative thoughts and reactions toward other people’s relationships, the more space you create within your own energetic field to receive the loving relationship you desire.

Your manifestations are always preceded by witnessing similar energies and situations around you first. That’s part of the process. You see it. You acknowledge it. Then you come into spiritual agreement with it.

When you can look at love and honestly say:

“Yes. I like that. That feels good to me. I desire that for myself.”

…you move closer to experiencing it in your own life.

But every time you move into criticism, judgment, sarcasm, mockery, envy, or spite, you push that energy away from yourself.

You just shooed away your blessing.

So yeah, watch your mouth! 🫢