Finding Your True Point Of Attraction

Lately, I’ve been watching this trend online—people dressing provocatively or doing things clearly aimed at getting attention, but then they say, “I’m not doing this for attention. I’m doing it for me.” And I just have to ask… are we being honest? Because yes, you may be doing it for yourself—but what about it makes you feel good? Most often, it’s the attention. And there’s nothing wrong with that.

What bothers me isn’t the desire to be seen—it’s the way we lie to ourselves about it. If you’re recording yourself walking through crowds hoping to catch a reaction, that’s not “just for you.” That’s a setup. You’re baiting the universe for a moment of validation while claiming it doesn’t matter. That dissonance is what throws everything off.

Let’s talk about contrast. Take someone like David Lee Roth—flamboyant, extra, the human embodiment of center-stage energy. I like him, because he owns exactly who he is. He doesn’t hide the fact that he enjoys attention. He performs for it. It’s authentic, even if it’s not for everybody. That’s what makes it magnetic.

There’s a huge difference between being the center of attention and trying to be the center of attention while pretending you’re not. One is honest. One is dissonant. That dissonance? That’s what repels people. That’s what makes your energy feel confusing, even if your outfit is perfect and your timing is right.

Changing Your Point of Attraction

This is where the Law of Attraction work comes in. If you’re trying to change your point of attraction—your vibrational pull—you have to get honest about your motivations, your core wounds, and your core beliefs about yourself and the world.

If you’re not honest about who you are and what drives you, your manifestations will come in scrambled. You’ll attract things that feel mismatched—not because they are, but because you’re not being energetically honest. You’re affirming one thing while your actions, beliefs, and energy say another.

That kind of inner conflict is what creates the feeling of being stuck, stalled, or blocked. The universe doesn’t know what to do with your energy when it’s out of sync. You can’t affirm abundance while secretly believing you’re unworthy. You can’t affirm love while rejecting your desire to be seen. That contradiction becomes the real blockage.

So if you want to shift your life, change your point of attraction, and manifest more in alignment with your truth, start by owning your truth. Say what you want. Admit what lights you up. There’s nothing wrong with wanting attention. Just make sure it’s the kind that feeds your soul—not the kind that confuses your spirit.