Stand On Business

Across social media, there are countless memes, quotes, and pieces of advice encouraging you to make the changes necessary to achieve the life you desire. Big, sweeping statements abound—whether it’s about changing your habits in 21 days or following trends to be successful. For some, this messaging can be beneficial. It may point to things they genuinely need to change, and following a structured program might be a step in the right direction.

However, there comes a time when we begin searching for answers, and in those moments, it can be seductive to think that sweeping changes are the solution. We might feel the urge to quit our jobs and pursue our creative passions, leave a marriage to embrace single life, or transform our bodies into something idealized. In times of crisis or instability, it’s tempting to grasp for control when everything feels out of control.

Yet, there is wisdom in holding your ground. What often goes unnoticed is that when you’re in the midst of change and life feels chaotic, sometimes the best action you can take is no action at all. To resist the urge to change can be a revolutionary act.

The popular message is that when something goes wrong in your life, the problem must be you. This narrative provokes anxiety, leading to impulsive decisions. But when you know who you are, what you want, and that you’re on the right path to achieve it, changing course might be the last thing you should do. The storm you’re facing could be a test, meant to throw you off track and lure you back to old patterns. Moving forward often requires facing obstacles head-on, which may feel like stagnation. However, if you remain steady and consistent, you will reap the rewards in due time. The storm could be a challenge to see if you’re truly ready for the next level. If you start making erratic decisions out of anxiety and fear, it’s a clear sign that you’re not yet prepared for what lies ahead.

At the start of any new endeavor, it’s wise to have a personal code. Define what you will accept and be clear about your boundaries. Understand your principles—what’s valuable to you and what matters most. Keep your goal in sight as you weather the storm, and when it feels like all of hell is against you, stand firm.